So I bought my ark server on the 19th, currently 3 days later. I am still unable to find my server on the listing when I search through Ark for it. Along with that, I have the mods I want installed. I’m just not sure how to activate them. Any and all help would be appreciated. Thank you

Few other things that I am trying to fix, how to turn off the collision prevention for building, How to give myself and others mod capabilities.